As the festive season approaches, many are gearing up for the traditional exchange of gifts, but the most valuable gift we can give our loved ones is time spent with them.

Samantha Pillay, director at First Loyalty Plus, highlights that time spent together promotes family bonding and doesn’t have to involve expensive or extravagant plans. Simple activities done together can create lasting memories and foster deeper connections. Whether it’s a father-son adventure, a nostalgic trip to the movies or a spa day with the girls, these experiences can be affordable and meaningful. This Christmas, let’s shift our focus from material gifts to the priceless gift of spending time with family – because, in the end, the best gift you can give is YOU.

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While gifts under the tree are always exciting, let’s take a moment to reflect on what truly matters: time spent with loved ones.

A study by Cornell University revealed that people derive greater satisfaction from experiential purchases, such as outings and activities, than material ones because experiences strengthen relationships and create stories to be cherished. Similarly, a study published by Frontiers Psychology, found that family bonding through shared activities increases overall wellbeing and life satisfaction.

Pillay offers five ideas to make this holiday season a truly memorable one with your loved ones:

1. Dads and lads: bond through sport and play

Nothing beats some quality father-son bonding like a shared interest – whether on the court, fairway or in nature. Grab your racquets or clubs for a game, hiking boots or fishing rods for some adventure and head out for a day of laughter, competition and connection in the beautiful outdoors. Whatever the activity, it’s the perfect setting to spend time together and create shared stories and memories that will last a lifetime.

2. Go nostalgic: watch a movie

When was the last time your family went to the movies? There’s something special about the cinema experience that brings everyone together in a way streaming just can’t match. The warm, buttery aroma of fresh popcorn wafting through the theatre and the excitement of seeing a film everyone will enjoy on the big screen is a timeless tradition that bridges generations.

3. Break bread together

Sharing a meal is one of the oldest and most meaningful ways to connect. Head to a family-friendly restaurant where everyone can choose their favourites, whatever their age. There’s only one rule: no phones allowed, this experience is about time spent together and indulging in some relaxed conversation. Tight on cash? Even a simple coffee date with your partner can create a treasured experience.

4. Moms and girls: glam it up

Moms and daughters, treat yourselves to some pampering! Whether festive manicures for Christmas, a relaxing foot massage and pedicure after a long day of shopping, a muscle-easing shoulder massage or even a full day spa experience  – these moments of self-care are perfect ways to ensure the time spent with your daughter(s) is a memorable experience and the positive impact of the relaxation and pampering will make you all feel oh so good. 

5. Create holiday magic: no suitcase required

Life’s most precious times often unfold right on your doorstep. Whether it’s having fun baking cookies together, turning your home into a Christmas wonderland, playing board games on a rainy afternoon or visiting a dazzling Christmas light display at a local venue – it’s these simple shared experiences and the time spent together that are important. All it takes is being present with the people who matter most.

This Christmas, let’s focus on what truly matters: time spent together, laughter and love. After all, the best gift you can give is YOU!