I agree. My daughter is 4 and has a little corner in our backyard where she digs holes and measures cups of sand. From big to small cups. Learn through play. She absolutely loves it.
What parents fail to understand is that children should not be dressed up in expensive brands and then told that they may not play because they will get their expensive clothes dirty or ruined. Children need to experience the world. I own a preschool in an upmarket suburb and so many of our children come to school dressed in top brands, some don't care about getting their cloths dirty, others don't want to play with their friends because they are wearing brand-name takkies and they can't get them dirty. We tell them to take off their fancy clothes so that they can enjoy themselves. My belief is that if there is a ring around the bath at night you know that your children have had a good day of playing!
Agree with Bianca. Let children be children!
I think as parents we forget that everything for our little ones is new. They need to be allowed to explore and if that means a little dirt even better :) Playing outside and being exposed to new experiences, textures and allowing them to learn about the world they live in with the added bonus of building their immune system! I love it (even if to my horror I do get proudly presented with a bug or two in the future!). We need to remember it is not all about us and what the other people will think of us; it is about allowing our little people to grow up well rounded and not afraid to explore their world.
I also agree, however I am in urgent need of help and guidance. My son is 4 years old and since he was 4.5 month old he has been with a day mother at her home. I don’t know if he gets a lot of play and outside play as he should or if he gets a lot of structured play. He is a clever little boy and he knows all his colours, shapes and he can count up to 20. But I don’t know when it is the right time to put him in a school. I have already enrolled him in his Gr R school but I am so afraid that he will not be ready and he wont know how to play with other children. There are only 5 children at the day mother and my son is the oldest. Please help.
I agree completely. I let my son play outside, I let him get dirty as much as possible. He loves it and I know it does so much more good than harm. It's called life and I feel he has to experience EVERYTHING. If he gets dirty, so what? That's what we have washing machines and washing powder and baths and soap for.
What would be really useful is a list of poisonous plants to look out for. E.g. I've been told that syringa berries and arum lilies (both in my garden) are poisonous - and my 11-month-old puts EVERYTHING in his mouth. What should we be looking out for?